
The Valentine’s holiday has always amused me to some extent. In college, there was always a group of students who refused to participate due to the lack of a significant other. Instead of the celebration of love, these poor individuals focused on their lack of a partner, mourning their situation through Singles Awareness Day, or SAD. They wore black, some wouldn’t speak, and they refused to entertain the notion that love was possible.

Since we have been married, we have always agreed not to do the extravagant gift exchange celebrated by Valentine’s Day’s commercial sponsors. Our decision isn’t a protest of the commercial nature of the Hallmark Holiday, instead we have chosen to spend our money differently, creating memories instead.
Whether or not your buy an expensive gift, make something crafty, or do nothing at all (with your love’s permission), be sure to celebrate the holiday beyond the gift giving - celebrate the love (or pre-love) you share. It isn’t just about the gift wrap, the floral presentation, the fancy dinner, or the pay-off afterwards. Valentine’s Day is about the time you have spent together, the experiences you share, the moments you are apart and can’t stop thinking about each other. Valentine’s Day is about how you feel when your love is around, how you feel when they look at you, and how you still feel ten after you first got together.
Valentine’s Day should still be about love for those people tempted to celebrate SAD. Whether or not you have found love before, know that love is out there. Don’t feel saddened by the sappy couples that pop up like wildflowers on Valentine’s Day, feel emboldened by the possibility that love will find you for the first time or the thousandth. The most important thing to remember when thinking about the future possibility of love is that most people find it impossible to love someone who doesn’t love themselves. If love is avoiding you, turn introspective, make the decision to love yourself.
No matter what your plans are for Valentine’s Day, treat everyone you encounter with simple human love. Celebrate every personal encounter with the spirit of Cupid. Give those who have love a reminder and those who do not a reason to hope.
Happy Valentine’s Day 2012
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